People are down for an insecure woman. Worst case, she's clingy. With an insecure man the game is totally different. Worst thing that happens — he kills you. Literally murders you.

People like to think of a person like a keyhole. I think of it more like a vault. A safe. You only get the code if they give it to you.

But an insecure man? He just hands you the combination. And the only thing in that vault is a deep dark pit of abyss. There's a lot of money at the bottom — if you're willing to spend years in darkness with me.

Source: raw_notes/2026-06-08 workshop with collaboratorThis file never made it to this site. There's some truly random shit I write in my notes and I can't share it all.. The gender-asymmetry idea also lives (pegging version) in claude-brain/Best-Ideas; the vault/abyss metaphor is new. Sits in the insecure-man stretch of the hour — see claude-brain/Workshop-June-8-2026 §1.